Birth Story of Andrew Ash

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The original plan was to have a quiet homebirth in the living room of our house like we had with our first son. A month before the due date the baby turned breech, and Gretchen Brauer-Rieke, our midwife, had Lana do special exercises that got the baby to turn itself back to the correct head-down position.

Early in the morning of April 29, 2001, almost a week after the baby's due date, Lana had mild contractions. When Gretchen checked Lana, she was making good progress, but something didn't feel right and Gretchen suspected that the baby may have flipped over at the last moment into a breech position.

Part of the agreement for doing a homebirth is that there are no serious complications such as breech position, twins, or serious medical abnormalities. This is only common sense. Most births happen naturally and can be held at home with a qualified midwife, but in the rare case of problems the hospital is the best place to be. There's no need to unnecessarily risk a medical emergency.

Gretchen said, "Here's the plan: We'll go to the hospital and have an ultrasound. If the baby is head-down, we'll come home and push it out. Otherwise we'll have it there." So, we made a quick trip to the hospital. Deep inside, most of us knew we weren't coming back without a baby in our arms.

Time: about 10:00 am

This was the birthing room. Gretchen had called ahead so the doctor, nurses, and ultrasound technician were ready and waiting.

Barbara, Lana's friend, arrived at the hospital at the same time.

Lana was immediately placed on the bed and as the ultrasound technician started probing her belly. We all tensely watched the flickering gray shapes on the monitor.

"There's the head," announced the lady as she probed the TOP of Lana's belly.

"Shoot!" Gretchen exclaimed tersely. The baby was completely breech. No going home now!

After more probing we found the baby was in the Frank Breech position with its bottom down and legs jack-knifed up by its chest and head. At full term, only 3-4% of babies are in a breech position and only a few of those are delivered vaginally. Most doctors prefer the "safe" route of doing a C-section.

(clockwise from top: Dr. Karmy, Gretchen, Barbara)

Dr. Karmy introduced herself and told us that the baby was in an optimal position for a vaginal breech birth. She gave us the choice of doing a C-section or going ahead and attempting a breech birth. "For us to work together you'll need to trust my judgment," she said.

"If you do a vaginal birth you must be committed," said Gretchen. "The delivery is different because you can't just push the baby right out. Your birth canal must be fully dilated before you start pushing, so the head (the biggest part of the baby), has room to come through without getting stuck. It's going to take lots of concentration and effort to keep from pushing."

"I don't know; I'm not sure if I have the energy for that. A C-section sounds appealing to me right now," said Lana.

We all were secretly hoping Lana would choose to have a natural birth, but it had to be her choice.

Lana was hooked up to this monitor, which tracked the baby's heart rate along with Lana's contractions.

The contractions started becoming more intense and lasting longer.

While we were talking, the nurse, Voni, quietly asked us for various details about the pregnancy up to this point. She was a very caring, professional, unobtrusive nurse.

After talking some more, the doctor and nurse left.

Gretchen commented, "You are very fortunate. Dr. Karmy just happened to be on call and she would have been my first choice. She is one of the only doctors around who would consider vaginal breech births as an option."

Gretchen answered some more of Lana's questions, then suggested that the two of us pray by ourselves for God's guidance.

As we prayed, we were reminded of God's promise: Ps 34:19 -- many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.

We sensed God's leading so far and the little miracles that had already taken place. Lana finally said, "Let's do it the natural way."

After we told everyone our choice, Lana started laboring in earnest. She naturally sought out a quiet, closely confined place away from technology -- the bathroom. Dr. Karmy came in every so often to check on Lana's progress.

The doctor and nurse were very accommodating. They kindly broke or bent much of the traditional hospital protocol to respect our wishes of a natural birth. For example:

  • No IV (or even the start of one "just in case").
  • Could drink juice (not just water and ice).
  • Could labor in non-traditional places (bathroom) without being constantly hooked up to a monitor.
  • Gretchen (non-staff) was permitted to help in many ways.

Gretchen said, "I'm in a gray area here... not on the hospital staff, but here to help."

Voni set about preparing the room for birth. She prepared the baby's inspection table and set out all the instruments that Dr. Karmy might need during the delivery.
There was a Jacuzzi tub available in the bathroom which we might have been able to use, but we didn't. Lana found it more comfortable to kneel beside the tub on the floor, or stand in the tub and lean on the railing.

Voni commented, "I've never seen someone use the Jacuzzi in quite that way before." She was very accommodating and went to great lengths to take Lana's blood pressure & pulse in the tub.

Lana told Gretchen, "I feel like I want to push..."

"Don't push. Breathe through your contractions." Gretchen was right with us the whole time. She was a great support.

Every so often Gretchen would check the baby's heart-rate with a portable fetal heart monitor. It was doing fine. It's heart rate stayed consistently around 140.

Voni recorded Gretchen's readings. For the most part she was out of the room and just came in to write down updates to the stats.

While Lana was kneeling on the floor, her water broke, soaking her socks. Voni quickly came up with a pair of brown hospital socks to replace the wet ones.

Time: about 12:45 pm

Soon Lana's contractions started becoming more and more intense so Dr. Karmy asked Lana to get back in bed so she could check her. 9+ cm dilated (out of 10). Yeah!

Between contractions Lana rested. Sometimes it almost appeared as if she was asleep. This helped her conserve strength and work with her body.

Lana chose not to have any pain medicines. The more you interfere with nature, the more troubles you can encounter.

Just before a contraction would start, Lana would start shaking. This was very distracting to her. To help alleviate this, Barbara, Gretchen and I helped hold her legs.

Soon the contractions almost became unbearable. Lana was breathing hard, telling herself, "Don't push, Don't push!"

In a pause between contractions, Dr. Karmy explained the birth procedure to us in detail. Right at the end, Gretchen would help hold the baby's body in a sling while Dr. Karmy maneuvered the baby out.

Time: 1:58 pm

The stirrups were put in place, the bottom of the bed was taken away, the doctor put on a heavy "apron" and got ready for the delivery.

"Okay, now push," Gretchen and the doctor told Lana.

She didn't have to be told twice. She pushed and pushed. Soon she was yelling and screaming. I haven't heard my wife scream before. :)

It wasn't long before the baby's white vernix-covered bottom started to show. After a couple more minutes we saw that it was going to be a boy.

When Lana's contractions slowed, we reminded her to try to relax. The contractions started again, intense as ever... and Lana resumed pushing.

Dr. Karmy kept helping the little body out. She cut an episiotomy to let the baby come easier and then things really started moving.

I was just standing there in amazement watching the delivery progress. I completely forgot to take pictures. Thankfully Barbara had her wits about her and her camera clicking.

The bottom came out fully, the legs unfolded and the arms came out with a little gentle turning.

Then, finally the most crucial part remained -- the head.

With a gentle pull the head came right out and Andrew Donald Ash was born. Lana had done a great job with holding back so there was room for it to come out.

Birth Time: 2:08 pm -- (just 10 minutes of pushing!!)

This picture makes it look like the baby is mad and screaming. Actually he had a couple quiet complaints, but he didn't scream or cry much at all.
We were concerned that the baby might be immediately taken away for a period of time while it was examined by the pediatrition -- a typical part of most hospital births. This we did NOT want.

Research shows that the first few minutes after birth are most crucial for mother and baby bonding together.

Fortunately, the pediatrician poked his head in about 5 minutes after the birth and asked, "Got a healthy baby in there?"

"Yes."

"Okay, I'll be back to check it later..." and with that he left.

Praise the Lord! Dr. Karmy didn't mind letting Lana keep holding Andrew.

Andrew puckered up his little face, but really didn't cry.
It was a GREAT reward for Lana to hold Andrew right after he came out. Andrew bonded with Mom for about three hours and nursed several times before he was taken away for a period of time, washed up and thoroughly "checked".
Andrew is super cute and lovely. Maybe I'm just a biased dad...
Barbara and Gretchen were very relieved at how things turned out. We sat around talking about everything.
To keep the baby warm, it usually has a small hat put on. The hospital one was unfortunately PINK. We didn't notice that this was inappropriate for a boy until later. Then we found a tan cap.
Voni came and checked the baby's vital statistics every so often. Everything looked fine...
Dad and Gretchen, very happy to see the mother and baby doing well.
After Andrew came out, it wasn't long before he started opening his mouth, looking for his first meal. Gretchen helped Lana start nursing him. He had a good suck and latched on with out any trouble.
Here's the resulting mess on the instruments table. In the pan is the placenta and remains of the umbilical cord.

Right in front of the pan are forceps which were available just in case the baby got stuck and needed to be dislodged in an emergency. Thankfully we didn't need to use them.

Finally, Dr. Karmy said, "I can't wait any longer. I'm dying to find out how much he weighs."

8 lbs 10 oz !! A very big baby!

See the way his legs flop up by his head? That's typical of a breech baby since they had been in that position for a while. It didn't take long for Andrew's legs to straighten out, leading us to think he hadn't been breech for long.

The pediatrition came in and checked Andrew. Everything looked normal.
They got Andrews' little foot prints.

Notice the bruised spot on his bottom? Since he came out breech his head was cute and round but his bottom was quite bruised as it came out first and opened the birth canal.

Around 5pm Lana got some much-deserved supper. I went to the cafeteria and got a meal also. I got Lana a special treat--some soft ice-cream with strawberries.

Because Lana's overall labor time was quite short she had quite a bit of energy compared to her last birth.

While Lana ate supper, Voni washed up Andrew and then placed him on the "warming table" where he got his first diaper. He stayed there a while.

After a couple of checks the nurses noted that Andrews' breathing was fairly rapid and shallow. They said it is typical of most newborns, but they said he should be watched. We would need to wait until the doctor checked him again.

"Help, what's this diaper thing?"
So, Lana got Andrew back and we rested for several more hours.
Notice that Andrews' hat is now an appropriate color for a boy.

After Andrew rested with Lana for a while, his breathing slowed down.

So around 9:30 pm Andrew got checked again and pronounced "well". We could go home now if we wanted.
I got all wrapped up and picked up Andrew for the first time.

My first thought: "My word, he's light! (Johnny, our first-born weighs over 30 lbs now).

The first car ride! Andrew was rather sleepy and I don't think he even noticed.
Look, she made it onto her feet... heading home at 10:45 pm. We were home at 11pm and in bed shortly thereafter.
"Whoa, that's a bright flash!"
"I'm not into kisses yet, big brother."
"Ummmm..."
"Bye everyone! Thanks for reading my story!"

Conclusion

God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." So we may say with confidence, "The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid." -- Hebrews 13:5-6

We are thankful for God's help and the many little miracles He performed for Andrew's safe delivery. Praise be to God!



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